So Why the Rush To Become An Organ Donor? July 22, 2008
Posted by Bob Aronson in Organ Donation.1 comment so far
Here is one good reason. 7,000 people die each year because there are not enough organs and right now as you read this; over 100,000 people are on the waiting list.
Let us imagine you are watching a video on your I-Pod. The scene is of a family in a loved one’s hospital room. The family has been told there is no brain activity — the patient is brain dead. The grief is so intense you can feel it through the device in your hand. The Organ Procurement Organization (OPO) coordinator is on hand. Her job is to comfort and console while at the same time asking the family if they would like to donate their loved one’s organs. The question must be asked because the patient never made his wishes known. On the wall, a clock with a second hand tics. It is an unobtrusive but constantly interruptive reminder that another patient in another hospital is waiting for the organ that will help him live — and time is of the essence – tick, tick…
This scene plays itself out every day in hospitals around the country. I know not what happened in my case, but when I got the phone call saying a heart might be available, I was raced to the hospital and in my daze gave little or no thought to events that had already transpired and were still unfolding. Somewhere a grieving family told an OPO coordinator that they wished to donate their loved one’s organs.
In a calm, almost serene manner, the OPO Coordinator informs the hospital of the decision and immediately like a finely tuned machine a highly complex but coordinated system begins to unfold. With the notification of an organ availability several people and groups of people must spring into action; surgeons, nurses, anesthesiologists, drivers and pilots not to mention aircraft and ground transportation are at the ready. In one hospital, the recovery team works to obtain the organs and keep them healthy while in another hospital a transplant team is preparing the patient to receive the new life-giving organ.
I am sure to many this all sounds easy and perfected, but there is one weak link in this chain — the donor and whether he or she has made their decision clear and known to the family. If you want to be an organ donor and do not make your wishes known, you are probably sentencing someone else to death. It is at the time that brain death is declared that many families not knowing the patients wishes, refuse to donate. Not because they are mean spirited but usually because in the confusion of the moment, the grief and the feeling of powerlessness many well intentioned people just say “No.” Do you want to put that extra burden on your family, probably not.
If you want to be an organ donor then do not wait a second longer, do it right now. Go to Donate Life America and sign up now. Yes, I said now! http://www.donatelife.net/
As you sign on to Donate Life America think about this:
Here is a confounding fact that probably reveals an extremely high level of procrastination about when people will “sign up.” According to Donate Life America:
90% of Americans say they support donation, but only 30% know the essential steps to take to be a donor. And –very few of those people take the necessary steps in time to save a life.
“But wait!” As the commercial says, “There’s more!”
Almost 100,000 men, women and children currently need life-saving organ transplants.
Every 12 minutes another name is added to the national organ transplant waiting list.
An average of 18 people die each day from the lack of available organs for transplant.
Have you signed up yet?
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Reflections on Recovering From a Heart Transplant July 16, 2008
Posted by Bob Aronson in Organ Donation, journaling, recovery.1 comment so far
On August 21, 2007, I received a new heart at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, Florida. I also received a new life, a new attitude and a new appreciation for my family and friends.
I’m not going to write about the difficulties I encountered but rather I will attempt to describe my enrichment by the process. Here are some of my “awakenings” of the last eleven months.
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A new appreciation for life and a new ability to “see” things I was oblivious to before my transplant. Now I “see” nature and the life around us, I “see” children at play, puppies, and love. Yes, you can “see” love but you have to look and comprehend.
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I have found the real meaning of love and it is far deeper than words. Love, is a look, a touch, a gesture a movement. Love can be seen in people’s eyes, how they listen and the helpful actions they take. Sometimes you can be aware of love even though the actions taken might be wrong.
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The gift of life is the ultimate in giving. While receiving the gift is relatively easy, making the decision to give is sometimes difficult, especially for families with dying loved ones who have healthy organs. Yet thousands of people make that decision every year despite the enormous grief they are experiencing. I hope my donor family knows how intensely grateful I am. I hope they know that they not only saved my life, but also caused great happiness for me, my family and my friends. Let us not forget the living donors. Can there be a greater expression of love, concern and compassion than those who voluntarily give all or part of an organ? I think not.
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While I loved my family unconditionally before the transplant I love them more deeply now, than ever. And – while it sounds selfish, I now understand the depth of their love for me and how what affects me has an equal effect on them. Oh, how the phrase, “No man is an island …” applies. We should all recognize that and we would be far better people. My greatest blessing is my wife, Robin. I simply cannot express my love for her. I won the biggest lottery ever when I found her.
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My dear, dear friends. An experience like the one I just had really lets you know who your friends are. There are friendly acquaintances and there are true, loving friends. While both are important to me, few of the people I know fall into the latter category. One has been a friend since we were ten years old. I finally know what the word means; I suspect he has always known.
I have learned so much more than the five items listed here, but these are the personal lessons that stand out. All in all, I have to believe I have come out of this experience as a better person and one whose “betterness” will continue to grow. In many ways, I wish everyone could have a transplant, we might all be better for it.
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BEWARE!!! Potential Organ Scam July 3, 2008
Posted by Bob Aronson in SCAMS.5 comments
I have received several emails from an organization called Donate-For-Life that cause me some concern. They ask for money but give absolutely no details on what they do or how. See for yourself by clicking on http://www.donate-for-life.com/index.html
Here is the first paragraph on their website,
“Proprietary Concept
Note: The exact working details are a trade secret; however, the program is completely lawful and will not harm persons in third world countries.”
The working details are a trade secret? A trade secret? But not to worry, they will take your money anyway. What kind of fools do they think we are? Please, readers, do not send money to any organization that does not explain in detail what it does. The claims this group makes are outrageously wild and there is not a single shred of evidence to back them up.
It is a fact of life that there are vultures in our society with the nerve to prey on millions of wonderful altruistic people and on the thousands of patients who live daily with the fear of dying? I am not saying Donate-For-Life is a fraud, but the initial smell test sure does leave them suspect. I will keep checking on this one, let us know what you find out, too.
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