LifeSharers gets, “No thank you,” from Priest

I have written two blogs on LifeSharers.  Both have received a great deal of attention.  I had not intended to do another one on the subject this soon, but when I read the blog on StellarCross by Father Robert Lyons a “Primitive Catholic Priest”  ( I could not resist the temptation to reprint it.  I have tried several times to reach Father Lyons, but could find no way to contact him.  So I am taking the liberty of reprinting this without his permission.  I hope that he, as a supporter of organ donation, will understand.  His message is too important to ignore. I have highlighted LifeSharers comments in bold and italicized them in order to give clear separation between them and Fr. Lyon’s remarks.

                                    Fr. Lyons‘ Blog (FL)


FL: In response to my post yesterday concerning Organ and Tissue Donation, I received an interesting comment. I posted it, somewhat reluctantly, but wish to actually expound upon why I don’t believe that the suggestion made in the comment is appropriate.


Dave Undis is the Executive Director of LifeSharers, a Nashville, Tennessee based organization that promotes an idea of prioritized donation on the basis of the recipient’s donation status (i.e., if they are or are not a donor). His comments follow, with my comments interspersed:


Undis: “Over half of the 98,000 Americans on the national transplant waiting list will die before they get a transplant. Most of these deaths are needless. Americans bury or cremate about 20,000 transplantable organs every year. Over 6,000 of our neighbors suffer and die needlessly every year as a result.”


FL:  agree with Dave; as a proponent of Organ and Tissue donation, I definitely am not thrilled that so many people do not elect to give the gift of life. That being said, why do people choose not to donate? In fact, how many people have truly rejected donation? Simply asking “Do you want to be an organ donor” at the license branch isn’t sufficient. We need education. We cannot blame those who do not know about donation for going to their graves with their organs.


UNDIS: “There is a simple way to put a big dent in the organ shortage — give organs first to people who have agreed to donate their own organs when they die. Giving organs first to organ donors will convince more people to register as organ donors.”


FL: I doubt it. People use the same justification to support capital punishment. The United States executes, per capita, the largest number of criminals in the western world, yet we have one of the highest violent crime rates on the planet. People won’t have a clue about this idea – just as many have no real clue what donation is all about. Then, they will find out about it and it will be too late.


UNDIS: “It will also make the organ allocation system fairer. People who aren’t willing to share the gift of life should go to the back of the waiting list as long as there is a shortage of organs.”


FL: Again, what about a lack of education and knowledge? You are going to have to do better, Dave, in convincing me that this is a good idea. Until there is effective, universal education on this issue, your plan makes no sense. It excludes people who have bought into the lies about donation (i.e., they take organs from black folks and kill them and give them to white folks… or… if they know I am a donor, they won’t try to save my life). Look at the country we live in, Dave… do you REALLY think we have the knowledge in this nation to make your dream a reality? I don’t. Also, I am not willing to write off those who are ignorant of donation, just as I am not willing to write off God’s gift of eternal life among those who have never heard of Christ. To do so would be, in my mind, a betrayal of my Christian principles.


So, in short, Mr. Undis, thanks… but no thanks. Our Organ Donation system is flawed, needs help, and could stand to use a massive infusion of people… but it works far better than singling people out because of a lack of knowledge or because they have been taught all their lives that Donation is one group’s way of being a modern-day succubus off of another group.


When and if (and I do mean if) the United States passes a presumtive consent law concerning donation (you are a donor unless you opt out) then it will make sense to classify people based on their conscious decision to opt out of participating in the system. Until then, I am absolutely uncomfortable with any move to restrict donation in the fashion that LifeSharers suggests.


Posted by Father Robert Lyons



About Bob Aronson

Bob Aronson is a former journalist, a Minnesota Governor's Press Secretary and talk show host. For nearly a quarter of a century, he led the Aronson Partnership, a Minnesota-based communications consultancy that prepared corporate and government executives for crisis situations, regulatory testimony, media interviews and Presentations. Among his clients were all three U.S. Mayo Clinic locations, 3M, general Mills, CH2M Hill, the U.S. Department of Energy and scores more. In 2007 bob had a heart transplant after suffering from idiopathic dilated cardiomyopathy for 12 years. Shortly after he got his new heart he founded the now 4,300 member Facebook support group, Organ Transplant Initiative. At the same time, he established the Bob's Newheart blog where he has posted nearly 300 columns on organ donation, transplantation and other health related issues. The Viewpoint blog was started in late 2016 and bears the name of the Radio Talk show Bob did from 1966 until 1974, when he resigned to become Minnesota Governor Rudy Perpich first Press secretary. Bob and his artist wife Robin, live in Jacksonville, Florida with their two dogs, Reilly and Ziggy. Bob is also a woodworker and makes all of the furnishings for Robin's art festival booth. He also makes one of a kind jewelry or "memories" boxes that he donates to select transplant patients, caregivers, donor families and others who have somehow contributed to making life easier for the ill, the elderly and the less fortunate. Bob is in the final stages of editing two full-length novels that will be available on Kindle when ready for release sometime in early 2017. One is a sci fi novel about an amazing discovery near Roswell, New Mexico and you will be surprised to find it has nothing to do with the Roswell story everyone knows. It features a woman scientist who investigates impact craters for the U.S. Department of the Interior, Dr. Rita Sylvester and her female student intern. The other book is a political thriller that introduces a new hero to the genre, Fargo Dennison.

Posted on April 25, 2008, in LifeSharers. Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. Dear Bob,

    I just happened to run across you site today, and I am certainly happy to (belatedly) give my permission for you to repost my position.

    Just a minor correction, though, I am not a Presbyterian; I am a Primitive Catholic.



  2. Once again Mr. Undis poses the same tired arguments. Rather than offer another rebuttle I refer you to my other LifeSharers blogs on this site. One simple fact remains. LifeSharers can never meet its goal because it will never have enough members. If they doubled their current rate of growth it would take 250 years just to reach a million. They need well over 200 million in order to provide the “equity” of which Mr. Undis speaks.


  3. Bob:

    Here is my response the Father Lyons.

    Dave Undis

    Father Lyons:

    Thanks for your thoughtful response to my comment.

    You suggest we need more education to get more organ donors. I don’t think more education is the answer. Public opinion polls show that over 90% of Americans already support organ donation. The problem is that only 50% have agreed to donate their own organs.

    I wrote that giving organs first to organ donors will convince more people to donate. You responded “I doubt it”. Please consider a thought experiment. Would giving organs LAST to organ donors convince FEWER people to donate? It seems obvious that putting organ donors at the back of the transplant waiting list would lead to fewer donors. Why shouldn’t putting organ donors first lead to more donors?

    You wrote that LifeSharers “excludes people who have bought into the lies about donation (i.e., they take organs from black folks and kill them and give them to white folks… or… if they know I am a donor, they won’t try to save my life).” I wonder how many of these people are willing to accept an organ transplant? If I think signing an organ donor card could cause doctors to not save my life, should I be willing to accept a transplant from someone who might have been left to die for their organs?

    Similarly, you wrote of people who think that organ donation “is one group’s way of being a modern-day succubus off of another group.” Do these people accept organ transplants?

    LifeSharers puts the Golden Rule in operation in the world of organ donation: LifeSharers members treat others as we would like others to treat us.

    Dave Undis
    Executive Director


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