In Honor of Organ Donors and their Families


We read and hear a great deal about the shortage of organs, incredible stories about “nick-of-time” transplants, multiple transplants and innovations in transplantation but we don’t hear much about the donors who make this all possible.  Being an organ donor is one of the most unselfish, compassionate and noble gestures one can make.  It is particularly noble because in most cases the donor will not be around to hear the praise and thanks.  Paying tribute to donors and their families is one of the most important things we can do.  These mostly anonymous people deserve to be in our thoughts and prayers every minute of every day. 

As you know I am a heart transplant recipient, I only know that my donor was a 30 year old male from South Carolina, nothing more.  I have written to the donor family expressing my gratitude but, like many donor families, they have chosen to remain anonymous.  There are many more, however, who choose to be public about their experience and how we support and honor them is the subject of this blog. 

Prior to my retirement I was honored to have as a client, LifeSource, an organ procurement organization (OPO) that serves Minnesota, the Dakotas and part of Wisconsin.  They were not only a valued client but also became dear, dear friends.  Rebecca (Becky) Ousley is one of the many dedicated people who help to further the LifeSource mission.  Like most OPOs LifeSource does a wonderful job of promoting organ donation and coordinating transplants.  But they are so much more than that, they offer heart felt support to the living, too, especially donor families.  Below is a reprint of their latest blog.  Please read and comment either to this blog or directly to LifeSource at http://www.life-source.org/

From “The Source” by Becky Ousley, LifeSource

One of the things I find remarkable about the work we do at LifeSource is the extent to which we are committed to supporting donor families, both at the time of donation and for years afterward.  Donor families are the cornerstone of the work that we do – without them there would be no transplants.  It is an incredibly generous gift.

I’m always so excited to tell people about this, as many people don’t realize that donor families receive this kind of support in the months and years following donation.  At LifeSource donor families are part of our aftercare program for as long as they wish; we have some families that have been coming to our events for nearly 20 years!   In addition to receiving support and remembering their loved ones, these long time donor families are also able to provide hope and perspective to our families that are more newly bereaved.  That too, is a wonderful gift.

Part of our aftercare program involves facilitating letters between transplant recipients and donor family members.  Either party can write to the other; often, recipients want a chance to say thank you for their gift of life or donor family members may want to share memories about their loved ones.  Donor families and recipients can request to have direct contact with one another and, sometimes, they even meet.  These are often very rewarding relationships.

This was the case today, when I was honored to attend a donor family and recipient meeting with my colleague Jill, whose job it is to support these families.  She connected this pair after some persistent detective work, as the donation and transplant took place more than 40 years ago in 1966!  It was an incredible meeting and I think we were all touched when Steve, the kidney recipient, immediately hugged the donor’s sister and told her he had been waiting for 43 years to give her that hug.

KARE-11 was there to document this wonderful meeting and I encourage you to watch the story by clicking here.

Please comment in the space provided or email your thoughts to me at bob@baronson.org.  And – spread the word about the immediate need for more organ donors.  On-line registration can be done at http://www.donatelife.net/index.php  Whenever you can, help people formally register.  There is nothing you can do that is of greater importance.  If you convince one person to be a donor you may save or positively affect over 50 lives.  Some of those lives may be people you know and love.  

You are also invited to join Organ Transplantation Initiative (OTI) http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=152655364765710 a group dedicated to providing help and information to donors, donor families, transplant patients and families, caregivers and all other interested parties.  Your participation is important if we are to influence decision makers to support efforts to increase organ donation and support organ regeneration, replacement and research efforts. 

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About Bob Aronson

About Bob Aronson On August 21, 2007 I received a new heart at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, Florida. All these years later I am very active, happy and loving life. God bless my donor and his family. His generosity toward a complete stranger will never be forgotten. I am retired and live with my wife Robin and two dogs Reilly the main dog and Ziggy the backup. We are a very happy family. My gratitude to my wonderful caregiver wife, my donor, his family and the Mayo Clinic is beyond my ability to express. Suffice it to say I will do whatever is in my power to promote organ and tissue donation and to help and support everyone affected by the issue. As a result of receiving the “Gift of Life” I have made a major commitment to organ/tissue/blood donation, transplantation and related issues. I am the founder of Facebook's over 4,000 member support group, Organ Transplant Initiative (OTI) and the blog site, “Bob’s Newheart” www.bobsnweheart.wordpress.com. I have authored the great majority of the nearly 250 blogs listed there. The remainder were written by excellent guest bloggers. The posts span a wide variety of topics mostly involving organ/tissue donation/transplantation and related issues, but also covering important current medical news and information. Wordpress data indicate the blogs have readers in 162 countries. Bob's Newheart is quickly becoming the news and information source of choice for those with an interest in organ/tissue donation/transplantation along with current developments in medical news and health care. Born In Chisholm, Minnesota I now reside in Jacksonville, Florida. I have three children and one step son, 8 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren. My three grown children are Roger Aronson a well-known and respected Minneapolis, Minnesota Attorney, Dr. Colleen Hegranes Senior Vice President St. Catherine University in St. Paul, Minnesota and Harryet (Hank) Freeman who is probably the best history teacher in America, at least that's what her students at Woodbury, Minnesota High school tell me. Stepson Tim Grant and wife Jennifer live a couple of blocks from us in Jacksonville. Jen is a talented cook, baker, and mother. Tim is an in-demand electrician in Jacksonville who can really make almost anything work. Stella and Lily Grant are two very bright and talented granddaughters. For 25 plus years I owned the Aronson Communications Group an international consultancy specializing in health care communication. The Mayo Clinic was my first consulting client, a relationship that lasted until my retirement. I also worked with 3M health care, UNOS, LIfeSource, Dartmouth University Medical Center and CH2M HILL, one of the nation's largest environmental engineering firms. Prior to being a consultant I served for four years as the first Anchor for Morning Edition on the Minnesota Public Radio Network; was the Communications director for Minnesota Governor Rudy Perpich and before that held positions as a broadcast journalist at several Midwest facilities. I also served as the Director of broadcast communications at Moorhead State University in Moorhead, Minnesota. While I am retired Robin is not and I assist her efforts as founder and owner of Jingler’s Jewelry. She designs and makes colorful, "Fun" anodized aluminum jewelry and is also an accomplished printmaker. She sells her creations at art shows, festivals and gift shops in states east of the Mississippi but mostly in the south. Her website is www.jinglersjewelry.com. When I have time, my hobbies include reading, music and woodworking. One of my most notable projects was completing a wood scale model of the mom and pop grocery store my parents ran for 50 years in Chisholm, Minnesota. The model now resides in Chisholm in my sister's home. Our parents were wonderful people who instilled in us a very strong work ethic and a sense of fairness and equality. I also built a dollhouse for granddaughter Lily Grant and just completed designing and building a CD box that looks like an accordion. A friend commissioned me to make it in memory of his father who was an accomplished accordion musician. I have a brother and sister of whom I am very proud . They are twins. Terry is a Minnesota District Court Judge and Mary a retired but still the best 3rd grade teacher in America. I am proud of them for what they have done but more importantly for who they are. My wife Robin is a caregiver, musician, artist, entrepreneur and the best friend I have. While we do a lot of things together we especially like making music. Often in the evening you can hear the strains of folk, Blue Grass, country and other music coming from our family room. Robin plays several instruments including string bass, accordion, guitar, ukulele, mandolin and...well the list goes on. I play harmonica and have one in almost every key. She's really good...I'm not. Quantity does not ensure quality. One more thing. I am also a recovering Alcoholic and a former smoker. I emerged from a 28 day in-patient alcoholism treatment program in August of 1982 and have managed to stay sober with the help of a lot of people both in and out of Alcoholics Anonymous. I quit smoking in January of 1991 after a 37 year habit of up to four packs of cigarettes a day. It wasn’t easy but I’m living proof that it can be done. I am available to anyone suffering from or affected by any addiction at any time through my email address bob@baronson.org or via phone 904-434-6512.

Posted on February 7, 2010, in Donors and their Families and tagged , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. http://transplantcafe.com/

    The gift of life.

    Enabling personal connections, awareness, & support to the transplant community.

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  2. We just posted a new blog that you might be interested in.

    Eye Donor Awareness Month: Lions Help Give Lisa the Gift of Sight

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